Your state
Why it matters.
Unresolved conflict doesn't disappear; it recruits. The person who can mediate once saves the team months of quiet damage.
The component skills.
Practise — activities that produce artifacts.
Two solo hearings ~45 min
For a real tension between two people, hear each side separately. Write each person's interest (not position) in their words. Do not solve yet.
Artifact: Two interest summaries in their words
The working agreement ~60 min
Bring both to one conversation. Land the smallest workable agreement and have each person repeat it back in their words. Diary the follow-up.
Artifact: The agreement + both repeat-backs
Missions — do it for real.
Mentors for this capability.
Matched from real, opted-in Lifelong Careers members through the Mentor Intelligence Network — with their trust states shown as stored. Source-listed is not the same as verified.
No opted-in mentors match this capability yet — none are invented. See the Mentors view or the full directory.
How assessment works.
Every submission gets a transparent first-pass against the mission's rubric — what was looked for and what was observed. Verified state requires a real review; the system never upgrades self-reported evidence on its own.
composure
Notes on pressure moments and what reset you used
follow_through
What happened afterwards — the result and what changed
process_correctness
Steps done in a sensible order, nothing skipped
self_awareness
Honest signals: what you noticed, what was hard, what you'd change
Accepted evidence: mission_submission, mentor_review, observed_application, work_sample.
Stated plainly — what this doesn't do
- — Submissions are private, self-reported evidence — they never become verified without a real review.
- — Mentor review for capabilities arrives in a later phase of this module.
Source: Lifelong Careers MY LIFE SKILLS Module Master Specification v1.0 §4 · v1 · last checked 2026-11-01 · your data rights